Sometimes its about putting it all out there!!

So I have been sick and dealing with a few things. I have been honest with my husband and told him that I was not sure if we could fix everything that was wrong with us and that I really did not even know if I wanted to. I am not sure if that makes me a bad person or not but to be honest I am tired. My marriage is exhausting. I also pointed out that he does nothing but sit around when he is home and who wants to be married to that. I know he works hard and I am not expecting him to do dishes, make dinner or even give the kids a bath every night but he could help out one of those nights. Surprisingly my being honest with him has seen to sparked him to make an effort. I don't know if in the end it will change anything since as of right now he is still the guy in my head who at first chance will put anyone's feeling in front of mine....but we will see. I feel better for having said it though even though at the time I felt like I was just being really really mean. I also decided to restart my 90 Day Challenge with Body By Vi. I love the 90 Day Goals and hope that I get to win one of the fabulous giveaways when I finish. I decided to not focus on weight but on a fitness challenge. Figured by doing that I will be getting the results I want anyways but mentally pushing myself. So what is my fitness challenge. TO finish the insanity workout. I have actually managed to do days 1-6 completing every video very proud of myself. I will keep you all updated on the results. I hope everyone is having a great weekend. Want to join me on my 90 Day Challenge? Want to start one of your onw? http://lanischweitzer.myvi.net

Woo Hoo!!!

Ok been a little slacking on certain things I have been super duper busy. But today I did my weight and my measurements. They might be a little off but think I am pretty accurate. Weight 196.3 (that is minus 3.1 lbs I believe) Chest 38.5 (-0.5) Waist 40.25 (-1.5) Hips 45.5 (-0.5) Thighs 26.75 (-0.25) Calf 17 (0) So that makes my total lost 3.1 lbs and a total of lost inches 2.75. Not bad for girl with a PCOS and an under active thyroid. Plus I had to cut back on working out while sick. Cough too much to get very far and its just ends up being annoying. Want to join me on my 90 Day Fitness/Weight Loss challenge? htpp://lanischweitzer.myvi.net

Almost done with birthday week!!!

So we didn't do a whole lot for my little one's 5th birthday. I sent cupcakes with him and my oldest to school and he came home wearing a birthday crown. I had ordered a cake for them both on Sunday and since he is younger and didnt even notice I made him wait to open his presents until Sunday. Sunday we did the cake thing and had one of my friends over than headed over to Boomers. We played and had a good time. So overall I think it went well. Things at home are ok. He sort of made an effort the other day. We will see how he does when he gets home. On the diet front I did gain about 1 lb from all the running around and the pizza and the cake. Plus your weight fluctuates daily so I will update you guys again in a few days. http://lanischweitzer.bodybyvi.com

Starting Again

Ok, so I started this blog and than let it slide along with the things that I was working on. So today is a new day. Kids are in school and I have an interview for a job that I am over qualified for and only works about 12 hours a week but the hours are perfect to work around my sons school hours. I also think if you are starting with nothing you have to start somewhere and so sometimes you just got to swallow your pride and go for it.
So I am a few days late but let me post my Day 1 info for you all
Day 1
Weight 199.4
Chest 39
Waist 41.7
Hips 46
Upper thigh 27
Calf 17
Day 5
Weight
198.4 (-1)

I stay on top of my weight knowing that number will fluctuate daily but my measurements either every 2 weeks or once a month. Lets see what other updates should I post my marriage is still rocky but I am going to focus on me not worry about him. I have completed two rough drafts done for a paranormal romance and a short erotica rough draft. Need to edit both and copyright them and move forward have been focused on getting a job so little distracted but if I get this part time job I can still look for a better job but some of the stress will be relieved (not a lot it doesn't pay a lot but its  a start).

So if any of you are interested in starting your own 90 Day Fitness or Weight-loss Challenge check out my site http://lanischweitzer.bodybyvi.com